It is better when someone does the work for you. When you dont have to put too much effort in trying to find the best way to break it to someone, or to do something.
He figured he cannot take it, and even though he thought that he is ready for a long term and maybe serious relationship, he finally realized that in fact he isnt ready.
I could feel it, his anxiety was very obvious.
Today i was thinking to myself that i am going to give him just a couple of days to change the way he is and get back to the way he was! I told myself to wait and see how things turn out.
What if he is going though a rough time and he just needs me to hang on. So my conclusion today was, to wait. I told my friend, " Angie, i will know in a couple of days, just give me time". she laughed and said, " you are getting good at this, practice makes perfect".
I came out of work, called him on his cell phone to see how he is doing, trying to be as cool as i can be that he started saying he has been thinking about us. That he thinks he is not ready for it yet. and that if i go with him i am going to cut myself short. That he is messed up in his head and he likes me but he doesnt want to drag this relationship to a point that i think he is a bad person.
He said he doesnt know what else he could ask for, and that he is sorry for telling me in the begining that he is ready and now he is saying that he is not.
I laughed, and he questioned it. I told him that i felt it too and i am glad that he told me now before we keep trying too hard and get emotionally involved.
And then we ended it.
I am getting good in knowing people and knowing what i am looking for in a man. I am happy, because i know that i can trust my feelings, and that they dont lie to me ever.
One thing i learned from this very short relationship of mine is that the minute you feel that something is wrong, then know that there is something wrong. listen to it, and act on it. Dont let it get dragged and listen to your heart because thats where your answeres are.
I am ready for the next step, the next story and the next relationship.
cheerz.
He figured he cannot take it, and even though he thought that he is ready for a long term and maybe serious relationship, he finally realized that in fact he isnt ready.
I could feel it, his anxiety was very obvious.
Today i was thinking to myself that i am going to give him just a couple of days to change the way he is and get back to the way he was! I told myself to wait and see how things turn out.
What if he is going though a rough time and he just needs me to hang on. So my conclusion today was, to wait. I told my friend, " Angie, i will know in a couple of days, just give me time". she laughed and said, " you are getting good at this, practice makes perfect".
I came out of work, called him on his cell phone to see how he is doing, trying to be as cool as i can be that he started saying he has been thinking about us. That he thinks he is not ready for it yet. and that if i go with him i am going to cut myself short. That he is messed up in his head and he likes me but he doesnt want to drag this relationship to a point that i think he is a bad person.
He said he doesnt know what else he could ask for, and that he is sorry for telling me in the begining that he is ready and now he is saying that he is not.
I laughed, and he questioned it. I told him that i felt it too and i am glad that he told me now before we keep trying too hard and get emotionally involved.
And then we ended it.
I am getting good in knowing people and knowing what i am looking for in a man. I am happy, because i know that i can trust my feelings, and that they dont lie to me ever.
One thing i learned from this very short relationship of mine is that the minute you feel that something is wrong, then know that there is something wrong. listen to it, and act on it. Dont let it get dragged and listen to your heart because thats where your answeres are.
I am ready for the next step, the next story and the next relationship.
cheerz.
