You don't have the answer, you only think that you have the solution. The truth is simply this: We are all on our own journeys and we all have our own paths to happiness. There is no one particular answer, there is no singularity to happiness. Its simply the path to happiness and finding that one epiphany that sends those electronic charges to the brain and then BAM! Happy, for now. Until the next thing brings you down and now, now you have to search for the next one, the next epiphany. We are on a constant, painful journey towards the ideal of Nirvana, like it or not.
So here is my idea, stop telling me how to live my life and how to be happy, let me figure it out for myself. Try and work on you, and I'll encourage you through it.