So what else could we do, *should* we do, except keep trying? Keep moving forward, as long as we make up our minds to keep on learning as we go, and to never stop. I can wake up and start to feel a bit of anxiety about forthcoming "obstacles" or unexpected occurrences or disappointments, whatever it may be...relating it to past feelings I've had in similar circumstances and situations all the while, and let it continue to effect me in the same way and in the same light, not even attempting to sort it through in my own mind and get to the bottom of it, giving myself an opportunity to perhaps heal from something and resolve a reoccurring issue of some sort. Or, of course, an alternative could be to in fact do what I just described. Either way, it is a choice--I *could* do either. But what *should* I do, given the alternatives? That is the key question that should always underlie any of the "coulds".