18/08/2011
As to those three stories I have heard yesterday, It comes to mind that we cannot predict or adjust our relationship with others in advance. There are so many people with different background coming to our life to affect it to some extent, consciously or unconsciously. It is very wise to pick up on their message to expand our mindset without any emotional attachment to these people. Once we noticed their message, if we like that we can develop our friendship or relationship with them. Subsequently this social network which is formed according to our selection and interest may give us some insightful ideas or new perspectives. To keep them responsive and eager to share their stories, I have to take advantage of my golden rules for attraction of people. Again I have to emphasize on fully self-awareness on these relationships to hinder any annoying emotional attachment. The key point is you have to make them hungry for more. Life is like trial and error. That’s why it seems to be a blend of excitement and hostility.
Moreover, I should stick to my goals and dreams while interacting with my social network. They maybe act either discouragingly or inspirationally. The only thing matters are that you should be fully aware and alert to these situations without being influenced by them. If they follow a particular trend, it doesn’t necessarily mean that it is also right for me. Everyone has its own characteristics and belief system.
Recently I found out that our brain is a future-producing material which impulsively makes up a positive and promising picture out of big frightening issues like death. We consistently seek for peaceful life but we fail to notice it is embedded in ourselves. These external serenity-making sources appear to be religion, smoking, drinking and sex.