During last three days ago, I was at home collecting information about publishing in ISI-indexed journals and essential requirements for getting a fund or scholarships. I have found plenty of valuable info which threw light on the process of paper publication. Moreover I updated my knowledge about efficient way to communicate with a professor and understanding their perspective when they allot a fund to someone. I am astonished to see the great hype surrounding paper publications and various types of cheating in this field.
I think I found this chance to review the way I am heading especially from the perspective of those people who already successfully dealt with it. The bottom line is, never give up if you are really strong minded. Now happily I am well aware of this life journey.
Back in the day I had a quarrel with my owner’s family, I picked up a few points about the way I was arguing. Firstly I did not let them a chance to tell their own story because I incorrectly assumed that I was well aware of their story therefore I started to act like a boss and kept blaming and threatening them. Consequently, they reacted in the same way as it was obviously expected. I repeated my statements several times but it seemed they didn’t persuade by my arguments. The point is if I want to effectively cope with these conflicts, I have to act as a wise man not an insubordinate boy!! I should accurately know their story by asking them politely and understand their potential concern then taking my concern into account. The persuading process initiated by analyzing the situation and collecting the real data from the environment. Then we can tap into their emotions in sympathetic and caring way in order to win them over.
I guess I have to undergo a few more real quarrels to grasp the essence of above-mentioned facts.