17/8/2011
Today morning, I went to the college to collect my main degree. Luckily, everything went well without any inconvenience. Even more, I checked my old place, it seemed it was occupied. The environment has not changed noticeably, same buildings, same people, and same dogs!!!
Actually, I didn’t miss those old days when I was studying in college. I just realized when you miss something or somebody it realistically doesn’t mean that they were incredible, but it probably means your present state is not as interesting as your past. If we consider this in a sensible way, it is understood that time is passing by and everything is changing gradually to make every system operating and adoptable. If there is no change, no improvement will be happened. The consistent change in the universe is one of inevitable natural rules. As a result we should recognize it properly.
Moreover, today I have just heard three different stories of three people. I cannot judge them based on my story, because, everyone has a unique characteristics with different wisdom which behaving in various situations according to that. They maybe make wrong decisions or react inappropriately to a conflict or waste time and money. This is prominently caused by misunderstanding and lack of practical knowledge and insight.
Sadly, in two stories, the attention is on having an affair, deception and immaturity and marriage and totally fails to notice the other side of their life. I think there is should be a balance between all the elements which make life evolving and flourishing.
It was amazing to hear that my friend has gone through heart attack and even had near death experience. Any way after long time, I saw my old friends and they had so much to tell you.
Accidently I met one of my friends. This is the second time I met her. She looks beautiful and cool. I should change my perspective which considers every gorgeous girl as a possible or future partner. It is more appropriate to have friendship with them without any prejudgment or bias as they really are, in other word, observation. There are many marriage options for you if we act patiently and wisely. Just delete those misleading pictures in the mind which evaluate the future pessimistically. They are not realistically true.